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Wedding Ang Bao Rates in Singapore (2019) – How Much Should You Give?

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Wedding dinners in Singapore can sometimes be a mercenary affair. Even if you never spend more than $5 on meals and always make a beeline for the cai png stall, you’re expected to shell out a 3-figure sum in your wedding ang bao whenever someone you know gets married.

Don’t be fooled into thinking that ang baos are purely a gift from the heart. In Singapore, your ang bao symbolises your well-wishes as well as covers the cost of your seat at the banquet table.

Though the couple might not admit it, usually they will be praying that you do not make them “lose money” by giving less than it cost them to invite you.

 

How much should you put in a wedding ang bao?

The first thing you need to do is to calculate the cost of your seat. This varies depending on how swanky the wedding venue is – there’s usually a published rate per table for wedding banquets.

Since each table seats 10 guests, divide the price by 10 to figure out how much the happy couple is paying for your presence.

If you’re not close to the couple, e.g. your secondary school friend you haven’t met up with in 10 years, a distant cousin you never see outside of CNY gatherings, a colleague who only invited you because he felt obliged to invite the entire team… it is considered socially acceptable for your ang bao to just cover the cost of your seat.

But if you’re close to the couple, you are generally expected to cover the cost of your seat, and then some. How much more you give depends on your relationship with the couple. Sworn blood brothers deserve a higher ang-bao mark-up than that friend-of-a-friend who shows up occasionally at group gatherings.

Too lazy to calculate? It’s OK, we’ve done the work. Use our handy guide below to determine the cost per guest. The ang bao rates are determined by prices for Saturdays, usually the most expensive day.

If you get an invitation for a wedding lunch rather than a wedding dinner at a hotel, rejoice! Ang pao rates are anywhere between $30 and $50 cheaper for lunches. However, there is little price difference between lunch and dinner for Chinese restaurants.

 

Wedding ang bao rates for Singapore hotels (2019)

Arranged in alphabetical order

Hotels Saturday Sunday
Sat lunch Sat dinner Sun lunch Sun dinner
Amara Sanctuary Resort Sentosa $175 to $222 $199 to $222 $175 to $222 $199 to $222
Amara Singapore $140 to $175 $156 to $175 $140 to $175 $156 to $175
Andaz Singapore $199 $243 $199 $232
Capella Singapore $187 to $199 $210 to $234 $187 to $199 $210 to $234
Carlton Hotel Singapore $127 to $174 $139 to $174 $127 to $174 $139 to $174
Changi Cove Hotel $109 to $152 $114 to $152 $109 to $152 $114 to $152
Concorde Hotel Singapore $118 $148 $118 $140
Conrad Centennial Singapore (table of 10 for lunch, 12 for dinner) $152 to $179 $170 to $181 $152 to $179 $170 to $181
Copthorne King’s Hotel Singapore $105 to $130 $116 to $130 $116 to $142 $105 to $142
Crowne Plaza Changi Airport $132 $158 $132 $158
Fairmont Singapore and Swissotel The Stamford $146 to $293 $158 to $293 $146 to $293 $158 to $293
Four Points by Sheraton $152 to $175 $152 to $175 $152 to $175 $152 to $175
Four Seasons Hotel Singapore $168 to $175 $193 to $234 $168 to $175 $185 to $234
Furama City Centre Singapore $99 to $101 $116 to $125 $99 to $101 $102 to $119
Furama Riverfront Singapore $118 to $123 $116 to $150  $113 to $119 $108 to $146
Genting Hotel Jurong $95 to $121 $107 to $121 $95 to $121 $107 to $121
Goodwood Park Hotel $163 $190 $163 $185
Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel $132 to $187 $163 to $187 $132 to $187 $146 to $187
Grand Hyatt Singapore $175 $222 $175 $210
Grand Mercure Singapore Roxy $98  $109 $98 $109
Hilton Singapore $138 $167 $138 $147
Holiday Inn Singapore Atrium $116 $136 $116 $136
Holiday Inn Singapore Orchard City Centre $123 to $130 $143 to $153 $123 to $130  $143 to $153
Hotel Fort Canning $129 to $158 $161 to $181  $129 to $158 $149 to $169
Hotel Jen Tanglin Singapore by Shangri La $119 to $163 $146 to $163 $119 to $163 $146 to $163
Intercontinental Singapore $178 $222 $178 $222
JW Marriot Hotel Singapore $210 to $258 $240 to $258 $210 to $258 $240 to $258
Le Meridien, Sentosa $199 to $281 $222 to $281 $199 to $281 $222 to $281
M Hotel $112 to $143 $125 to $155 $112 to $143 $122 to $153
Mandarin Orchard Singapore $153 to $246 $190 to $246 $153 to $246 $182 to $246
Mandarin Oriental Singapore $179 $207 $178 $188
Marina Bay Sands $134 $163 to $187 $134 $163 to $187
Marina Mandarin Singapore $135 to $147 $159  $135 to $147 $159
Mercure Singapore Bugis $171 $182 $171 $182
Novotel Singapore Clarke Quay $141 $158 $141 $158
Novotel Singapore on Stevens $134 $169 $134 $169
Oasia Hotel Novena Singapore $127 $151 $127 $151
One Farrer Hotel $146 to $148 $158 to $175 $134  $146 to $158
One 15 Marina Sentosa Cove $114 $140 to $163 $114  $129 to $163
Orchard Hotel Singapore $146 to $158 $187 to $199 $146 to $158 $175 to $187
Pan Pacific Singapore $147 to $156 $188 to $193 $147 to $156 $170 to $175
Park Hotel Alexandra $113 $125 $113 $125
Park Hotel Clarke Quay $120 to $125 $130 to $134 $120 to $125 $130 to $134
Parkroyal on Beach Road $136 $168 $136 $156
Parkroyal on Kitchener Road $116 $128 $116 $128
Parkroyal on Pickering $161 to $235 $193 to $235 $161 to $235 $193 to $235
Peninsula Excelsior Hotel $93 to $140 $105 to $152 $93 to $140 $105 to $152
Raffles Hotel $199 $234 $99 $234
Regent Singapore $146 to $156 $163 to $187 $146 to $156 $154 to $183
Rendezvous Hotel Singapore $128 $140 $128 $140
Royal Plaza on Scotts $140 to $151 $140 to $151 $140 to $151 $140 to $151
Shangri-La Hotel $187 to $293 $222 to $293 $187 to $293 $222 to $293
Sheraton Towers Singapore $161 $185 $161 $169
Singapore Marriott Tang Plaza Hotel $128 to $163 $146 to $187 $128 to $163 $146 to $187
Sofitel Singapore City Centre $192 to $228 $205 to $240 $192 to $228 $205 to $240
Sofitel Singapore Sentosa Resort & Spa $192 $216 $192 $210
Swissotel Merchant Court Singapore $134 $168 $134 $156
The Fullerton Hotel Singapore $176 to $180 $199 to $200  $176 to $180 $199 to $200
The Outpost Hotel Sentosa $87 $213 $187 $213
The Ritz Carlton, Millenia Singapore $210 $249 $210 $249
The St Regis Singapore $174 to $199 $246 to $288 $174 to $199 $234 to $256
The Westin Singapore $168 $199 $168 $192
Village Hotel Changi $108 $122 $108 $122
Village Hotel Katong $112 $123 $112 $123
W Singapore $190 $226 to $233 $190 $202
York Hotel $103 to $124 $113 to $134 $103 to $124 $113 to $134

The most expensive wedding angbao rate stands at $293 per pax at Shangri-La Hotel and Fairmont Singapore and Swissotel Stamford for Sat/Sun dinner, while the most affordable is Genting Hotel Jurong for Sat/Sun lunch.

Although it used to be that Sunday lunches and dinners are slightly cheaper, these days it seems to be similar to Saturday’s rates for at least 75% of the hotels listed.

If you are attending a banquet on a weekday from Mondays to Fridays, prices might differ.

 

Wedding ang bao rates 2019 (restaurants/other venues)

Restaurant / wedding venue Sat lunch Sat dinner Sun lunch Sun dinner
Peony Jade at Clarke Quay $94 to $126 $100 to $136 $94 to $126 $100 to $136
Qian Xi Joy Garden $72 to $117 $72 to $117 $72 to $117 $72 to $117
Ban Heng Pavilion $70 to $119 $70 to $119 $70 to $119 $70 to $119
Ah Yat Seafood $64 to $104 $64 to $104 $64 to $104 $64 to $104
Tung Lok Seafood (Orchard Central) $63 to $95 $63 to $95 $63 to $95 $63 to $95
Lingzhi Vegetarian $53 to $75 $53 to $75 $53 to $75 $53 to $75
CHIJMES Hall $193 to $212 $193 to $212 $181 to $200 $181 to $200
Orchid Country Club $102 to $107 $119 to $130  $102 to $107 $102 to $107
Serangoon Gardens Country Club $69 to $129  $69 to $129  $69 to $129 $69 to $129
Faber Peak Singapore $139 to $151 $174  $139 to $151 $174 

Can’t find the venue on the list? Then give the hotel/restaurant a call and ask them how much a banquet table would cost.

Bear in mind that lunch and dinner prices are often different, while banquets on Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays will be higher than those on Mondays to Thursdays.

 

How much to give at Malay weddings?

While an appropriate contribution will vary according to the cost of the venue and how “atas” your friends are, traditional Malay weddings tend to be a bit more relaxed. The meal is usually served in the form of a buffet with free seating, so you do not need to worry about having to cover the cost of your “seat”. Although, this might be changing for some modern families as well.

Generally, a contribution of $30 to $50 is the minimum. On the other end of the scale, the sky is the limit if you are close to the couple.

 

How much to give at Indian weddings?

The answer is, it depends on the venue and where the reception is being held. The standard format is for the actual wedding to take place at a temple, and a reception to be held later on, typically at a hotel, function hall or restaurant.

You should generally budget for a contribution of at least $50 to $80 for receptions at temples and function halls.

If they’re held at high end hotels, you’ll have to give similar amounts to the rates quoted for wedding banquets above.

You should also add a $1 coin to your contribution, as offering a sum that ends in 1 is seen as auspicious.

 

How much to give at church weddings?

Regardless of race, if the wedding is held at a church, there may or may not a follow-up lunch or dinner banquet at a hotel or restaurant. If there is no banquet, there will usually be some kind of reception on the church premises.

If the entire wedding takes place at the church, you can get away with contributing about $40 to $50.

If there is also a banquet, refer to the ang bao rates in the table above.

How do you usually decide how much ang bao money to give at weddings? Tell us in the comments!

 

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